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What Kids Need:
4 Messages that Build Identity

The four messages your kids long to hear

Are the messages you intend to send to your kids actually what they hear? The 4 Messages ebook will help you align your intentions with your child’s perceptions, creating a nurturing environment where they feel safe, loved, called & capable, and responsible.

Start transforming your family’s communication today. Ensure your children receive messages of love and empowerment and a solid biblical identity to guide them through their lives. Take the first step toward a more connected family now.

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Featured Testimonial

“I had the distinct thought that no words were wasted. Each sentence and point felt meaningful, powerful and insightful. I also didn’t expect this but it made me feel closer to God- seeing how my parenting can reflect how He parents us and loves us.“
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The Framework Behind the Messages

CF Framework
When a child knows and believes they are:
  • SAFE with you
  • LOVED no-matter-what by you
  • CALLED and CAPABLE of good things
  • RESPONSIBLE for their actions
… their behavior and their life trajectory changes.

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Fill our the form below and get your copy of What Kids Need – 4 Messages That Build Identity today.
"I know I never want to be an unsafe parent. Seeing these four messages made it clear what the foundation is — safety. I wish I had felt safe, and I know I want my kids to feel it. I resonated with these messages, and they remind me that there is hope and grace to be found as we parent."

Allison

MOM

"This ebook is the first step to many more resources (such as the Discipline That Connects online course and parent coaching) that will strengthen your family. As we navigate the tween and teen years now, we feel much more equipped to help your boys to grow into loving and responsible young men."

Eric & Marni

PARENTS

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