Why “Stop it!” Doesn’t Work

I’d HAD it! I was sick of this aggravating behavior, day after day. I stopped in my tracks, glared at the little one who was
How to Break the Cycle of Crabbiness and Negativity

“I’m bored. No one wants to play with me. I hate my classes and that teacher. I’m no good at anything! Everything is just dumb!”
First Step to Helping Intense Kids

If you have an intense child (or know someone who does), watch this short video, produced in partnership with FamilyLife Canada. You’ll learn what might
Do You Offer Empowering or Trapping Choices?

You’ve likely heard the wise advice to give two choices to help empower kids and significantly decrease power struggles. What you may not have heard
Should I Require Fighting Kids to Apologize?

Sibling conflict can be discouraging as parents wonder, “Will these kids ever learn to get along? Will they ever be close?” Jim and I wondered
It’s OK to Mess Up

Catie came for coaching to address sibling conflict and disrespect. During one session she confessed, “I get so mad when one son hits the other,
How To Break Into Your Child’s Focus Bubble with Grace

Listening when you’re addressed by someone is a great life skill, but one that often our children don’t seem too eager to learn! Frustrated parents
When Your Child Just HAS To Have That Thing for Christmas…

Your little darling comes to you with their face lit up, a picture and product details in hand, their logic detailed into a lawyer-like brief,
Helping Kids Thrive Despite Rejection from a Teacher or Students

It’s tempting when kids experience rejection, to want to protect them and be a buffer to keep their feelings from being hurt. Our blood boils,
Transitions: It’s Time to Go

Does this sound familiar? Picture yourself standing, hands on hips at the front door saying (maybe loudly, even): “C’mon, kids. It’s time to go. Kids….
Helping Kids Transition From One Activity to the Next

When a child becomes so focused on a favorite activity that they just can’t seem to pull away, it may become an exercise in frustration
Prep Your Kids for a Responsible School Year

Getting an education is a tremendous privilege. Most parents recognize that future opportunities are built on the many layers of learning that happen during the


