Why We Think “Showing Kids What’s What” Doesn’t Actually Work

Rick was feeling impatient with the way his wife was dealing with their children’s misbehavior. He shared his thoughts with me during a recent conversation:
What to Do When Kids are Focused on Making Money

Can it ever be a good thing for kids to focus on making money? In response to our post about kids wanting things NOW, a
How to Find the Good… Even in Misbehavior!

“…whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute – if there is any
The Critical Cry of Every Child to Their Parents

I love baseball. Before I ever even thought about marriage, I dreamt about the day I would teach my own children to play baseball. The first
Why You Don’t Need a New Parenting Strategy

John was fed up. He told me that everything he’d tried had failed. No matter what consequences or logic John put in place, his 6th grade
How I Avoided a Full-Blown Affair
Is Kids’ Misbehavior Actually Bad?

We have been trained to think in black-and-white terms about a lot of things. Kids’ misbehavior is one of them. When kids misbehave we say
How do I get my son to stop talking back?

How do I get my 7-year-old son to stop talking back to everything we say? He is always right and we are always wrong! …
Tired of Not Feeling “Christian” Enough? This is for You.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13) I remember the sign on the men’s dorm
3 Powerful Steps to Redirect a Bored Kid

A thoughtful parent wrote us with the following question: How do I encourage my child to be more creative with his time? For example, not
What do I do when my child just says no?

Recently we received this question from Michelle: I am struggling with a tween who often says no to my requests. She is a good girl
Are We Teaching Our Kids to Be the Wrong Kind of Smart?

A recent article published in Time Magazine found that people with average IQ outperform people with high IQ 70% of the time. 90% of high


