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Are You Unintentionally Encouraging Bad Behavior? Hereโs How to Switch That
Introducing the ABCs of Affirmation
Resilient Children Are Raised, Not Born | Ep. 200
Join us for a powerful conversation with Jim and Lynne Jackson about raising resilient children. They encourage you to focus on the process and long-term perspective of building character and identity rather than focusing on the result of the taskโฆ
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Asking vs. Telling: What Parents Need to Know About Questions & Learning
Are you asking or telling your kids what to do? Iโm a teller by nature. It seems easier. Maybe it’s just more efficient. I tell my child what to do, and then she does it. I tell her the answerโฆ
โHelp! How on Earth Do I Get My Kids to Do Chores?โ
Take advantage of brain chemistry!
้ผๅฑ่ไบๅ ๅจ๏ผๅนๅ ปๅญฉๅญ่ดฃไปปๅฟ็็ฅ็งๆณ้จ
ๅญฉๅญไปฌๅผๅพไนฑไธๅ ซ็ณใ็ถๆฏไธ่ๅใๅ่ไธๅฐ่ฆๆฑๅญฉๅญๅฏน่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ่ด่ดฃ๏ผๅฌ่ตทๆฅ็ๅๆฏๅ ๅจ๏ผๅดไผผไนๅพ้พๆณๅบไธไธชๆๆ็ๅฏน็ญใๅจ “ๅฟ่ๅฎถ้ฝ”๏ผๆไปฌ็ธไฟกๆฏไธไธชๅๅทฎ่กไธบ็่ๅ๏ผ้ฝไผด้็ไธไปฝ็คผ็ฉใ่ฟๆฏ็็! ไน่ฎธไฝ ๅพ้พ็ๅบๅญฉๅญ็ๅไนฑๅฏไปฅๆฏไธไปฝ็คผ็ฉ๏ผไฝๆฏๅช่ฆไฝ ๆๅฟ๏ผๅนถๆนๅ่ง็น๏ผ็ถๆฏๅๅญฉๅญๅพๅพ่ฝๅคๆพๅฐไธไธช่งฃๅณๆนๆก๏ผๆฅๅ ้คๅ ๅจ๏ผๅนถ้ผๅฑๅญฉๅญๅๆฅๅคฉ่ตใ ๆๆ่ฟไธไธไธชๅฎถๅบญๅไฝๆถ๏ผๆไปฌๆๅบไบไธไธช้ๅธธๅฎ็จ็ๅปบ่ฎฎ๏ผๆฅๅธฎๅฉๅญฉๅญๅค็็ๆๅญ๏ผ่ไธไผผไนๅพ็ฎก็จใ้ ่ฏปไธ้ข็ๅ ๅฎน๏ผๅฏไปฅๅบๆฟไฝ ็ๆณๆณ๏ผๆฅๅธฎๅฉๅญฉๅญๅ ๆๅฏนไปไปฌ็นๅซๅ ทๆๆๆๆง็่กไธบ:ๆ ่ฎบๆฏไนฑไธๅ ซ็ณ็ๅงๅฎคใๅไนฑ็ๅ ฅๅฃๅคใ้่ฟๆไธขๅคฑ็ๅฎถๅบญไฝไธใ่ขซ้ๅฟ็ๅฎถๅกใ่ฏทๆณๆณ็ไฝ ๅฏไปฅๅฆไฝ้ๅฏน่ชๅทฑ็็นๆฎๆ ๅต๏ผๆฅ่ฐๆด่ฟไธชๅฎถๅบญ็่งฃๅณๆนๆกใ ๆๆ: ่พ็ๆฏ้ฃ็งๆดปๅๅๅฐ็ๅญฉๅญ๏ผๆ ่ฎบๅฅน่ตฐๅฐๅช้๏ผ้ฝไผๆฃๅๅบๆฌขไนๅ็ฌๅฃฐ๏ผๅดไนไผด้็ไธๅข็ณ๏ผ่ฟๆฏๅฅนๅ้ ๅ๏ผๅฅน็ๅคฉ่ต๏ผ็่ง่ฏใ็ฑไบ่พ็ๅๅงๅงๅ ฑ็จ็พๆฏ็จๅ๏ผๅ ๆญคๅพ้พๅผบๅถๆง่กๅฐไนฑไธๅ ซ็ณ็็ฉๅๆๅไฝฟ็จๅ ๅคฉไน็ฑป็ๅๆใไฟฉๅงๅฆนๆฐธ่ฟ้ฝๅจ็ญๅพ ๅฏนๆนๆธ ็ไฝฟ็จๅฎ็็จๅใ่่ฏ่ฏด๏ผโไธไธชๅๅฐๆๆฐดๅ๏ผไธคไธชๅๅฐๆฌๆฐดๅ, ไธไธชๅๅฐๆฒกๆฐดๅโ๏ผ่ฟๅฅ่ฏๅพ้็จไบ่ฟ็งๆ ๅตใ ่พ็็ๅฆๅฆ่ๆๆๅฐๅพๆฒฎไธงใๅฅนๆๆ็จๅฟ่ฏ่ฆ็่งฃๅณๆนๆก๏ผไผผไน้ฝๅ่งฃๆไบๆถๆๅๅ ๅจใ ๅฏน็ญ: ๅจไธๆฌกๅฎถ้ฟ่พ ๅฏผไผ่ฎฎไธ๏ผๆไปฌๅถๅฎไบไธไธช็ฎๅ็็ญ็ฅ๏ผไปฅๅปบ็ซ่พ็ๅฏน่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ็่ดฃไปปๆใ็ฌฌไธๆญฅๆฏไปไนๅข? ๅฐฑๆฏๅฆๅฆๅณๅฎ่ฎฉไฟฉๅงๅฆน้ฝๆ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญ๏ผ้้ข่ฃ ็ๆ้่ฟ็็พๆฏๅๆๅทฅ่บ็จๅใ็ถๅ๏ผๅฅนไปฌๅฐ่ด่ดฃ่ชๅทฑ็็ฉๅ๏ผๅฆๆๅฅนไปฌไธๆไธ่ฅฟๆพๅฅฝ๏ผๅฐไผ่ขซ่ฟฝ็ฉถ่ดฃไปปใ ไฟฉๅงๅฆน้ฝๅๆฌข่ฟไธชไธปๆ๏ผๅฅนไปฌ็นๅฐๅๅฆๅฆไธ่ตทๅปๅๅบไนฐไบ่ฟไบ็จๅใๅฅนไปฌ่ฃ ้ฅฐ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญๆถๅพๅผๅฟ๏ผๅๆถ่ฟไนๅขๅ ไบๅฅนไปฌๅฏนๆไธบไธปไบบ็ฟ็่ช่ฑชๆๅๅฏน่ฟ่ฎกๅ็ๆๅ ฅใ ไธไบๆๆ็ๅๅ: ๅฎๆๅ๏ผๅฅนไปฌ่ฎจ่ฎบไบไธไบๅ ณไบ็ ง้กพ่ชๅทฑ็ไธ่ฅฟ็ๆ็กฎๅๅใ ๅฅณๅญฉไปฌไผๅจๅทฅไฝๆถๆฟๅบ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญ๏ผไธไป ไป ๆฏๅ ๆ ท็จๅ๏ผ๏ผๅนถๆ็ๅญๆพๅจๅฅนไปฌ่บซ่พนใ็ๅญๆไธบ่ง่ง็ๆ็คบ๏ผๆ้ๅฅนไปฌๅจๅฎๆๅทฅไฝๅๆไธ่ฅฟๆพๅฅฝ๏ผไปฅๅธฎๅฉๅฅนไปฌ่พพๅฐๆๅใ ๅฝๅฅณๅญฉไปฌๆถๆพๅฅฝ็จๅ๏ผๅนถๅฐ็ๅญๆพๅๆๅฎ็ๆถๅญไธๆถ๏ผๅฅนไปฌไผๅๅฆๅฆๆ็ธ็ธๅปๆๅบ็ฅๅฅนไปฌ็ๆๅ๏ผๅนถ่ฎฉ็ถๆฏ็ฅ้ๅฅนไปฌๅทฒ็ปๅฎๆไบไปปๅกใ่ฟๅฐฑๆฏไฝฟ่ฟ็งๆนๆณๆไธบ “ๆๅ็ง่ฏโ็โ็งๅฏๆญฆๅจโ ใไธไธช็ฎๅ็โๆฅๅฐโ( ่ญฌๅฆๅปๆ๏ผไนๆไปฅๆๆ๏ผๆฏๅ ไธบๅฎๅปบ็ซไบ่ชไฟกๅ่ฎคๅๆ๏ผ่ฎฉไบบๅญฆไผๅฏน่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ่ด่ดฃใ ่ๆๅถๅฐไผ่ฏดๅฐๅฅณๅญฉไปฌๅญฆไบไธ้กนๅคไนๅฎ่ดต็ๆ่ฝ๏ผไปฅๅๆไธๅคฉๅฝๅฅนไปฌ้ฟๅคงๅ๏ผๅไบๆธ ็็่ฝๅไผ็ๆญฃๅธฎๅฉๅฅนไปฌใ ๆๅไบ! ่ฝ็ถ่ฟ็งๆนๆณๅนถไธๆปๆฏๅฎ็พ็๏ผไฝๆฏๅฎ็จ้ผๅฑๅๆๅๅไปฃไบไปคไบบๆฒฎไธง็ๅ ๅจๆจกๅผ! ๅฅณๅญฉไปฌๅๅฐ่ฟ็ง่ฝฌๅ็้ผ่๏ผไบๆฏๅฅนไปฌๅผๅงๆด็ๆฟ้ด้ไนฑไธๅ ซ็ณ็ไธ่ฅฟใๅฆๅฆๅธฎๅฉๅฅนไปฌๅๅๆฅๆ็็ฉๅๆฐ้๏ผ็ถๅๆๅฉไธ็ไธ่ฅฟๆด็ๅฐไธ้จ็็็ฎฑๅญ้ใ็ฑไบๅฅนไปฌๅ ๅๆด็่ชๅทฑ็่บๆฏ็จๅ็ๆๅ๏ผๅฅนไปฌ็ปๅธธ่ฝๅคๆฟๅบไธไธช็ฎฑๅญ๏ผ็ฉไธ็ฉ๏ผ็ถๅๆพๅๅป๏ผๅ็ปง็ปญๅไธไธไปถไบใๅฅณๅญฉไปฌๅฏน่ชๅทฑ็ๆฟ้ด็่ตทๆฅๅฆๆญคๅนฒๅๆๅฐ้ๅธธ่ช่ฑช๏ผไปฅ่ณไบๅฅนไปฌ็็ฅๆฏไธๆฌกๆฅๅ้ฅญๆถ๏ผๅฅนไปฌๅ ดๅฅๅฐๅๅฅนๅฑ็คบ! ๆ็ๅๅบ: ไน่ฎธๅญฉๅญ็ๅไนฑๅนถไธๆฏไฝ ้ขไธด็ไธไธชๆๆใ ไฝ ๅ็ฐ่ชๅทฑๅจไปไน้ฎ้ขไธไผๅ ๅจไฝ ็ๅญฉๅญ๏ผ ไฝ ๅฆไฝ่ฝ็จไปฅไธ็ๆถๆๆฅ็ผฉ็ญไฝ ็ๅ ๅจๅข: ๅปบ็ซๅญฉๅญๆไธบ้ฎ้ขๅ่งฃๅณๆนๆก็ไธปไบบ็ฟ็ๆ่ฏ๏ผ ่ฎฉๅญฉๅญไธบๆๅๅๅฅฝๅๅค๏ผๅนถๅบ็ฅ่ฟ้กนๆๅ๏ผ ๅธฎๅฉๅญฉๅญ็ๅฐๆๅญฆๅ ๅฎน็ไปทๅผใ ่ฏทๅจไธ้ข็่ฏ่ฎบไธญ๏ผไธๆไปฌๅไบซไฝ ็ๆฃๆๅๆๅๆ ไบใ ๅคๆณจ: ๆไธญ็้พๆฅ่ฅๆชๅฎๆไธญๆ็็ฟป่ฏ, ๅฐไผ่ขซ้พๆฅๅฐโๅฟ่ๅฎถ้ฝโ็่ฑๆ็ฝ็ซใ ็ฟป่ฏ: ๅพไธญ่ดต Original Article:
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ๅญฉๅญๅๅผๅพไบไธๅ ซ็ณใ็ถๆฏไธ่ๅใๅ่ไธๅฐ่ฆๆฑๅญฉๅญๅฐ่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ่ฒ ่ฒฌ๏ผ่ฝ่ตทไพ็ๅๆฏๅฎๅจ๏ผๅปไผผไนๅพ้ฃๆณๅบไธๅๆๆ็ๅฐ็ญใๅจ “ๅฟ่ฏๅฎถ้ฝ”๏ผๆๅ็ธไฟกๆฏไธๅๅๅทฎ่ก็บ็่ๅพ๏ผ้ฝไผด้จ่ไธไปฝ็ฆฎ็ฉใ้ๆฏ็็! ไน่จฑไฝ ๅพ้ฃ็ๅบๅญฉๅญ็ๅไบๅฏไปฅๆฏไธไปฝ็ฆฎ็ฉ๏ผไฝๆฏๅช่ฆไฝ ๆๅฟ๏ผไธฆๆน่ฎ่ง้ป๏ผ็ถๆฏๅๅญฉๅญๅพๅพ่ฝๅค ๆพๅฐไธๅ่งฃๆฑบๆนๆก๏ผไพๅ ้คๅฎๅจ๏ผไธฆ้ผๅตๅญฉๅญ็ผๆฎๅคฉ่ณฆใ ๆๆ่ฟ่ไธๅๅฎถๅบญๅไฝๆ๏ผๆๅๆๅบไบไธๅ้ๅธธๅฏฆ็จ็ๅปบ่ญฐ๏ผไพๅนซๅฉๅญฉๅญ่็็ๆคๅญ๏ผ่ไธไผผไนๅพ็ฎก็จใ้ฑ่ฎไธ้ข็ๅ งๅฎน๏ผๅฏไปฅๅบๆฟไฝ ็ๆณๆณ๏ผไพๅนซๅฉๅญฉๅญๅ ๆๅฐไปๅ็นๅฅๅ ทๆๆๆฐๆง็่ก็บ:็ก่ซๆฏไบไธๅ ซ็ณ็่ฅๅฎคใๅไบ็ๅ ฅๅฃ่ใ้ฏ้ๆไธๅคฑ็ๅฎถๅบญไฝๆฅญใ่ขซ้บๅฟ็ๅฎถๅใ่ซๆณๆณ็ไฝ ๅฏไปฅๅฆไฝ้ๅฐ่ชๅทฑ็็นๆฎๆ ๆณ๏ผไพ่ชฟๆด้ๅๅฎถๅบญ็่งฃๆฑบๆนๆกใ ๆๆฐ: ่พ็ชๆฏ้ฃ็จฎๆดปๅๅๅฐ็ๅญฉๅญ๏ผ็ก่ซๅฅน่ตฐๅฐๅช่ฃก๏ผ้ฝๆๆฃ็ผๅบๆญกๆจๅ็ฌ่ฒ๏ผๅปไนไผด้จ่ไธๅ็ณ๏ผ้ๆฏๅฅนๅต้ ๅ๏ผๅฅน็ๅคฉ่ณฆ๏ผ็่ฆ่ญใ็ฑๆผ่พ็ชๅๅงๅงๅ ฑ็จ็พ่ก็จๅ๏ผๅ ๆญคๅพ้ฃๅผทๅถๅท่กๅฐไบไธๅ ซ็ณ็็ฉๅๆซๅไฝฟ็จๅนพๅคฉไน้ก็ๅพๆใๅๅงๅฆนๆฐธ้ ้ฝๅจ็ญๅพ ๅฐๆนๆธ ็ไฝฟ็จๅฎ็็จๅใ่่ฉฑ่ชช๏ผโไธๅๅๅฐๆๆฐดๅ๏ผๅ ฉๅๅๅฐๆฌๆฐดๅ, ไธๅๅๅฐๆฒๆฐดๅโ๏ผ้ๅฅ่ฉฑๅพ้ฉ็จๆผ้็จฎๆ ๆณใ ่พ็ช็ๅชฝๅชฝ่ๆๆๅฐๅพๆฒฎๅชใๅฅนๆๆ็จๅฟ่ฏ่ฆ็่งฃๆฑบๆนๆก๏ผไผผไน้ฝๅ่งฃๆไบๆถๆฅตๅๅฎๅจใ ๅฐ็ญ: ๅจไธๆฌกๅฎถ้ท่ผๅฐๆ่ญฐไธ๏ผๆๅๅถๅฎไบไธๅ็ฐกๅฎ็็ญ็ฅ๏ผไปฅๅปบ็ซ่พ็ชๅฐ่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ็่ฒฌไปปๆใ็ฌฌไธๆญฅๆฏไป้บฝๅข? ๅฐฑๆฏๅชฝๅชฝๆฑบๅฎ่ฎๅๅงๅฆน้ฝๆ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญ๏ผ่ฃก้ข่ฃ่ๆ้ธ้็็พ่กๅๆๅทฅ่็จๅใ็ถๅพ๏ผๅฅนๅๅฐ่ฒ ่ฒฌ่ชๅทฑ็็ฉๅ๏ผๅฆๆๅฅนๅไธๆๆฑ่ฅฟๆพๅฅฝ๏ผๅฐๆ่ขซ่ฟฝ็ฉถ่ฒฌไปปใ ๅๅงๅฆน้ฝๅๆญก้ๅไธปๆ๏ผๅฅนๅ็นๅฐๅๅชฝๅชฝไธ่ตทๅปๅๅบ่ฒทไบ้ไบ็จๅใๅฅนๅ่ฃ้ฃพ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญๆๅพ้ๅฟ๏ผๅๆ้ไนๅขๅ ไบๅฅนๅๅฐๆ็บไธปไบบ็ฟ็่ช่ฑชๆๅๅฐ้่จๅ็ๆๅ ฅใ ไธไบๆๆ็ๆบๅ: ๅฎๆๅพ๏ผๅฅนๅ่จ่ซไบไธไบ้ๆผ็ ง้กง่ชๅทฑ็ๆฑ่ฅฟ็ๆ็ขบๆบๅใ ๅฅณๅญฉๅๆๅจๅทฅไฝๆๆฟๅบ่ชๅทฑ็็ๅญ๏ผไธๅ ๅ ๆฏๅนพๆจฃ็จๅ๏ผ๏ผไธฆๆ็ๅญๆพๅจๅฅนๅ่บซ้ใ็ๅญๆ็บ่ฆ่ฆบ็ๆ็คบ๏ผๆ้ๅฅนๅๅจๅฎๆๅทฅไฝๅพๆๆฑ่ฅฟๆพๅฅฝ๏ผไปฅๅนซๅฉๅฅนๅ้ๅฐๆๅใ ็ถๅฅณๅญฉๅๆถๆพๅฅฝ็จๅ๏ผไธฆๅฐ็ๅญๆพๅๆๅฎ็ๆถๅญไธๆ๏ผๅฅนๅๆๅๅชฝๅชฝๆ็ธ็ธๆๆๆ ถ็ฅๅฅนๅ็ๆๅ๏ผไธฆ่ฎ็ถๆฏ็ฅ้ๅฅนๅๅทฒ็ถๅฎๆไบไปปๅใ้ๅฐฑๆฏไฝฟ้็จฎๆนๆณๆ็บ “ๆๅ็ง่จฃโ็โ็งๅฏๆญฆๅจโ ใไธๅ็ฐกๅฎ็โๅ ฑๅฐโ( ่ญฌๅฆๆๆ๏ผไนๆไปฅๆๆ๏ผๆฏๅ ็บๅฎๅปบ็ซไบ่ชไฟกๅ่ชๅๆ๏ผ่ฎไบบๅญธๆๅฐ่ชๅทฑ็ไบๆ ่ฒ ่ฒฌใ ่ๆๅถ็พๆ่ชชๅฐๅฅณๅญฉๅๅญธไบไธ้ ๅค้บผๅฏถ่ฒด็ๆ่ฝ๏ผไปฅๅๆไธๅคฉ็ถๅฅนๅ้ทๅคงๅพ๏ผๅๆผๆธ ็็่ฝๅๆ็ๆญฃๅนซๅฉๅฅนๅใ ๆๅไบ! ้็ถ้็จฎๆนๆณไธฆไธ็ธฝๆฏๅฎ็พ็๏ผไฝๆฏๅฎ็จ้ผๅตๅๆๅๅไปฃไบไปคไบบๆฒฎๅช็ๅฎๅจๆจกๅผ! ๅฅณๅญฉๅๅๅฐ้็จฎ่ฝ่ฎ็้ผ่๏ผๆผๆฏๅฅนๅ้ๅงๆด็ๆฟ้่ฃกไบไธๅ ซ็ณ็ๆฑ่ฅฟใๅชฝๅชฝๅนซๅฉๅฅนๅๅๆธๆๆ็็ฉๅๆธ้๏ผ็ถๅพๆๅฉไธ็ๆฑ่ฅฟๆด็ๅฐๅฐ้็็็ฎฑๅญ่ฃกใ็ฑๆผๅฅนๅๅ ๅๆด็่ชๅทฑ็่่ก็จๅ็ๆๅ๏ผๅฅนๅ็ถๅธธ่ฝๅค ๆฟๅบไธๅ็ฎฑๅญ๏ผ็ฉไธ็ฉ๏ผ็ถๅพๆพๅๅป๏ผๅ็นผ็บๅไธไธไปถไบใๅฅณๅญฉๅๅฐ่ชๅทฑ็ๆฟ้็่ตทไพๅฆๆญคไนพๆทจๆๅฐ้ๅธธ่ช่ฑช๏ผไปฅ่ณๆผๅฅนๅ็็ฅๆฏไธๆฌกไพๅ้ฃฏๆ๏ผๅฅนๅ่ๅฅฎๅฐๅๅฅนๅฑ็คบ! ๆ็ๅๆ: ไน่จฑๅญฉๅญ็ๅไบไธฆไธๆฏไฝ ้ข่จ็ไธๅๆๆฐใ ไฝ ็ผ็พ่ชๅทฑๅจไป้บผๅ้กไธๆๅฎๅจไฝ ็ๅญฉๅญ๏ผ ไฝ ๅฆไฝ่ฝ็จไปฅไธ็ๆถๆงไพ็ธฎ็ญไฝ ็ๅฎๅจๅข: ๅปบ็ซๅญฉๅญๆ็บๅ้กๅ่งฃๆฑบๆนๆก็ไธปไบบ็ฟ็ๆ่ญ๏ผ ่ฎๅญฉๅญ็บๆๅๅๅฅฝๆบๅ๏ผไธฆๆ ถ็ฅ้้ ๆๅ๏ผ ๅนซๅฉๅญฉๅญ็ๅฐๆๅญธๅ งๅฎน็ๅนๅผใ ่ซๅจไธ้ข็่ฉ่ซไธญ๏ผ่ๆๅๅไบซไฝ ็ๆๆๅๆๅๆ ไบใ ๅ่จป: ๆไธญ็้ๆฅ่ฅๆชๅฎๆไธญๆ็็ฟป่ญฏ, ๅฐๆ่ขซ้ๆฅๅฐโๅฟ่ฏๅฎถ้ฝโ็่ฑๆ็ถฒ็ซใ ็ฟป่ญฏ: ๅพไธญ่ฒด Original Article:
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