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Power Struggles: Why We Get Stuck In Them & How to Move Toward Problem Solving
You donโt want to get stuck in yet another power struggle with your child, so why is it so hard to avoid power struggles? I can remember angrily looking at my determined, strong-willed child, thinking, โOh, no, you donโt! Youโreโฆ
Stop Power-Struggle Parenting | Ep. 190
Three dads and parent coaches talk about power struggles and how to break the patterns of judgment and defensiveness that get us stuck in power struggles with our kids. Chad Hayenga, Jim Jackson, and Alan Thetford team up to discussโฆ
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Why Doesn’t Your Tween Want to Shower? We Don’t Know Either.
(But here's a good way of finding out & cultivating wisdom)
How to Say โNoโ to Kids Without the Power Struggles
Think about how it usually goes: Your child focuses on a goal (even if it is a really bad goal like โteaching little sister a lessonโ), ๐ and then you come in with big energy, and a firm,โNo!โ We allโฆ
Avoiding Power Struggles Is Simpler Than You Think
We all want to avoid power struggles with our kids. The tantrums can be exhausting. Asking sincere questions, even with small kids, is a great way to redirect defiance and, most importantly, to build wisdom and responsibility in our children.โฆ
Are We Dealing Drugs To Our Children?
Did you know you may inadvertently be dealing โdrugsโ to your children? Dopamine has been called the brainโs โpleasure chemical.โ It is released when pleasure is experienced. It creates healthy motivation to pursue various life-giving pleasures such as accomplishing aโฆ
From Power Struggles to Peace at Meals
help for kids who are picky
How to Avoid Being Taken Hostage by Kids’ Demands
Parents sometimes feel like hostages to the intense demands of their children, intimidated into submission with the threat of โthe big gunโ – a deafening meltdown. One of our online course participants asked for help: Our 3 1/2 year oldโฆ
How do I get my son to stop talking back?
How do I get my 7-year-old son to stop talking back to everything we say? He is always right and we are always wrong! … We try discipline, taking away some of his toys, etc. but nothing seems to work.โฆ
When You Want to Be Heard… Whisper
In our online course a parent once asked the following question: I see the difference youโre talking about between typical parenting and parenting with the four messagesย in mindโฆ and I like the difference I seeโฆ here comes the BUT… whatโฆ