“I hate you!” When those words fly on the ride home after school, it’s easy to feel stuck. In this back-to-school season mini episode, host Stacy Bellward pulls back the curtain on a live cf community group coaching call, where Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Pam Bjerke work through one of the most common back-to-school challenges parents face. Get a taste of how walking a real parenting question through the Connected Families Framework™ can shift your whole perspective.
Key Takeaways:
- Why your child’s behavior is a message, not the whole story.
- How to model and offer language that honors others while staying true to how your child really feels.
- What changes when you meet a hard moment with empathy and curiosity before correction.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
- Join – cf community
- Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Online Course
- Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course
- Pam Bjerke – Connected Families Certified Parent Coach
- The Table Monthly Giving Program
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Guest Bio:
As a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, Pam Bjerke brings warmth, wisdom, and practical insight to every audience she serves. With experience speaking to diverse groups across the U.S., Haiti, and the Dominican Republic, she has led workshops and trainings for moms’ groups, adoptive and foster parents, trafficking survivors, schools, churches, teachers, and more, at both online and in-person events. Her goal is always the same: to offer grace-filled messages and actionable strategies grounded in the Connected Families Framework™ that participants can immediately apply at home or in the classroom. Pam is a licensed early childhood teacher and has training in TBRI, Conscious Discipline, and Interplay Play Therapy. She holds a certification in ARC Trauma Treatment for Children and Adolescents.
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