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The 4 Most Important Messages for Kids

The four messages your kids long to hear

Children don’t necessarily tell you what they need. Or how they’re forming an identity around the messages they hear you sending.

What messages do you want to send your kids in your parenting? Are they the messages your kids actually hear? Find out the answers, and begin to correct the accidental messages we all send at times.

The Discipline That Connects parenting framework has transformed countless families. Download this free ebook and let it begin to transform your parenting too.

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The Framework behind the messages

When a child knows and believes they are:

  • SAFE with you
  • LOVED no-matter-what by you
  • CALLED and CAPABLE of good things
  • RESPONSIBLE for their actions

… their behavior and their life trajectory changes.

I know I never want to be an unsafe parent. Seeing these four messages made it clear what the foundation is — safety. I wish I had felt safe, and I know I want my kids to feel it. I resonated with these messages, and they remind me that there is hope and grace to be found as we parent.



This ebook is the first step to many more resources (such as the Discipline That Connects online course and parent coaching) that will strengthen your family. As we navigate the tween and teen years now, we feel much more equipped to help our boys to grow into loving and responsible young men

Eric & Marni

Eric & Marni