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When You Want to Be Heard... Whisper

When You Want to Be Heard… Whisper

In our online course a parent once asked the following question: I see the difference youโ€™re talking about between typical parenting and parenting with the four messagesย in mindโ€ฆ and I like the difference I seeโ€ฆ here comes the BUT… whatโ€ฆ

Teaching Children to Ignore You

Are You Teaching Your Child to Ignore You?

Weโ€™ve often heard parents say, โ€œI hate to yell, but the kids just wonโ€™t listen until I do!โ€ If the kids arenโ€™t listening to requests, it may be about more than inattentiveness. It could be that the family culture doesโ€ฆ

The Great Thing About Yelling...

The Great Thing About Yelling…

The great thing about yelling is that it helps a parent unload a lot of frustration and for the moment feel a sense of control. The bad part is – that moment is short-lived. Whatever damage was done in theโ€ฆ