“My kids will never grow up to be responsible!” “I am a terrible parent, and my child and I will never get along!” Are you parenting from a place of fear? Even catastrophizing a situation? Do you find yourself replaying negative thoughts in your mind about yourself and your child?
You are absolutely not alone! It’s easy to let fears about our parenting and our kids grip us and cause anxiety. Toxic beliefs can affect our own hearts, and the hearts of our children. These beliefs are like a recording that plays over and over in our head. We hear a voice that says we don’t measure up, or we make negative assumptions about our kids, and we act out on those beliefs.
This kind of thinking can cause us to parent from a place of fear. Your intentions are probably good. You want to become more aware of what’s going on inside your heart, and guide your children from a place of calm and peace.
One mom’s story of parenting from a place of fear
Join Stacy Bellward (DTC course moderator) and Jim Jackson (co-founder of Connected Families), in an honest conversation about why it is so important to identify our toxic beliefs and replace them with grace-filled truth. Learn practical steps you can take to tame these beliefs and lead your family without fear.
Also joining us is Rebecca, a mom who took our Discipline That Connects with Your Child’s Heart online parenting course. Rebecca shares the impact of this course, and how over time it improved her connection with her children. Listen as she shares her struggles with her own fears and toxic beliefs, and how she learned to replace those beliefs with thoughts that encourage safety and connection.
In this episode, you will:
- Gain insight into why we sometimes parent from fear, and wisdom in working toward parenting from joy and peace.
- Learn to identify toxic beliefs, take those thoughts captive, and replace them with grace-filled truth.
- Hear practical ways to model self-calming strategies to your kids.
- Discover more about the Connected Families Framework, and how to build the foundation for connection and safety with your kids.
Discipline That Connects online course
Discipline That Connects is an 8-session online course that equips you to connect with your child’s heart during discipline. It is a powerful learning experience in a dynamic environment that motivates and encourages parents who are experiencing similar struggles. The DTC material is based on a unique biblical framework to help kids grow in wisdom and responsibility from a foundation of love, safety, and connection. We’ve built this course to be deep, but at the same time immediately actionable and memorable.
The course is a long term investment in creating more peace and connection in your home. We open up this online course to a new group of parents twice a year. Registration for our Fall 2020 session is now open! Check out more information and sign up here.