The Big Do-Over

Here is another story from Joel and Amy Nelson, parents of two sons, who have previously shared their story here. Enjoy! Parenting may not come

Is Your Response to Misbehavior Helpful or Hurtful?

What thoughtful question could you ask your child to build self-awareness of their behavior? How could you ask it in a way that communicates, “I

7 Peaceful, Powerful Ways to Connect with an Angry Child

Everyone would agree that loving our children is one of the most important things a parent can do. But sometimes expressing that love isn’t as

The Parenting Pitfall We All Get Stuck In

There’s a parenting pitfall that nearly all parents get stuck in at some point: “If my child behaves well, I am a good parent. If

When Kids Say “I Hate You!” How Can Parents Respond?

“I hate you!” There are certainly plenty of parents who have heard those disrespectful words. Some parents are deeply hurt (“I can’t believe you would

Are We Setting Our Kids Up to Be Uncooperative?

Parents can get in ruts. That’s true for me and I’m pretty sure it is for you, too. One rut that is familiar to many

How Do Your Kids Feel When You Discipline Them?

Try asking yourself: What do you think your children are learning about themselves based on how you treat them? How do you think your kids

One of the Biggest Deterrents to Effective Discipline…

3 Sure-Fire Discipline Tips for When the Heat is On!

Why We Think “Showing Kids What’s What” Doesn’t Actually Work

Rick was feeling impatient with the way his wife was dealing with their children’s misbehavior. He shared his thoughts with me during a recent conversation: