Teenagers, Sass, and Life That Is Truly Life

“Are you going to help me or not?” I snapped at Daniel, our fifteen year-old-son. He’d been asking for the past hour to go to
One of Our Biggest Parenting Mistakes…

One of our biggest parenting mistakes is to try to get kids to behave right for the wrong reasons. It’s a good thing to want
Regroup & Resolve

Every parent fails to deal perfectly with every parenting situation. In other words, we all screw up sometimes! Along the way we’ve discovered that what’s
Why Do Kids Obsess Over Video Games?

During my recent reading of “Boys Adrift” by Dr. Leonard Sax, I came across a letter that really grabbed my attention. The letter’s author is
Adapting Christmas…for children who joined your family through adoption

Whether they say so or or not, kids really do need lots of you, and even more so during the hectic Christmas season.
The Gift of Not Giving:

Have you noticed that Christmas aisles seem to be stocked earlier and earlier these days? Commercials for Black Friday “doorbusters” are rampant, and there is even controversy about some
Your Child Is Not Your Report Card

As the school year begins, here are a few brief reminders about responsibility and report cards.
“Why Can’t You Just Do What I Say?”

I’m often tempted to discipline my children with the goal of gaining immediate results. While this might get me what I want in the moment,
How to Peel Your Kids Off the Screen

It’s halfway through the summer, and you’re finding yourself in power struggles over screen time with your kids. Why can’t they simply obey you
Solving a Child’s Big Spiritual Problem

As parents who care for our children’s spiritual well-being, we try to teach them right and wrong and help them tackle whatever spiritual problems they
When Kids’ Disrespect Gets You Fuming!!!

The memory is vivid. Our eldest son Daniel was quick with his tongue when unhappy. Quick and usually ugly. One day I was sternly (…OK
Helping Kids Learn Independence from Tots to Teens

Our teen-aged son had been working on a variety of “extra-credit” home projects for us as a way to earn money. (For younger parents,


