Category Discipline

Stay Curious 1

Stay Curious During Tough Conversations

I remember a tough conversation I needed to have with our third-grade son, Daniel. I wasnโ€™t very happy about the company he was starting to keep. His behavior was getting worse as he hung out with what I concluded must beโ€ฆ

Covered Ears

“I canโ€™t hear you!”

โ€œI canโ€™t hear you!! I canโ€™t hear you!!โ€ You thought his misbehavior was frustrating, but when your child covers his ears and yells โ€œI canโ€™t hear you!โ€ it sends your blood pressure through the roof! We received this question fromโ€ฆ

Thick Peanut Butter

โ€œSpread Yourselves THICK!โ€

โ€œEverything is permissible for me, but not everything is beneficial.โ€ย I Corinthians 6:12 Ourย oldest child, Daniel, made a grand pronouncement one morning upon learning that we all had to go to church early, and stay through three services, because of ourโ€ฆ

casualties of criticism

Words that Hurt

In this Q & A, Jim and Lynne take 4 minutes to respond to a question from a mom and dad regarding their sonโ€™s hurtful words to his siblings. โ€œOur son constantly criticizes and teases our daughters – and anyoneโ€ฆ

Sassy 1

WHAT-EVER!! Ideas for Responding to Sass With Class

What-EVER! (with an eye roll) Youโ€™ve seen it a hundred, maybe even a thousand times. Your child doesnโ€™t like what youโ€™ve said and responds with a head tilt, and eye roll, and the grand pronouncement, โ€œWhat-EVER!!!!โ€ What do you doโ€ฆ

Animal manners

Are We Raising Animals?

There are so many little things our kids do that drive us crazy!  Often in an effort to get the behavior to stop we react quickly and without thinking.  We use body language and words that convey messages like, โ€œYouโ€ฆ