Category Discipline

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So You Killed The Cat….Now What?

โ€œDo you think we should tell the kids what really happened? What they donโ€™t know wonโ€™t hurt them, right?โ€ We received this question when a parent accidentally ran over the sleeping, aging family cat. What would you say if theyโ€ฆ

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How Do I Get This Behavior to Stop?

The first dad was angry I answered his phone call and heard a wide assortment of issues. His son was hanging out with a group of friends the dad did not like at all. He’d caught his son stealing, lying,โ€ฆ

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Stay Curious During Tough Conversations

I remember a tough conversation I needed to have with our third-grade son, Daniel. I wasnโ€™t very happy about the company he was starting to keep. His behavior was getting worse as he hung out with what I concluded must beโ€ฆ

Covered Ears

“I canโ€™t hear you!”

โ€œI canโ€™t hear you!! I canโ€™t hear you!!โ€ You thought his misbehavior was frustrating, but when your child covers his ears and yells โ€œI canโ€™t hear you!โ€ it sends your blood pressure through the roof! We received this question fromโ€ฆ

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โ€œSpread Yourselves THICK!โ€

โ€œEverything is permissible for me, but not everything is beneficial.โ€ย I Corinthians 6:12 Ourย oldest child, Daniel, made a grand pronouncement one morning upon learning that we all had to go to church early, and stay through three services, because of ourโ€ฆ

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Words that Hurt

In this Q & A, Jim and Lynne take 4 minutes to respond to a question from a mom and dad regarding their sonโ€™s hurtful words to his siblings. โ€œOur son constantly criticizes and teases our daughters – and anyoneโ€ฆ

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WHAT-EVER!! Ideas for Responding to Sass With Class

What-EVER! (with an eye roll) Youโ€™ve seen it a hundred, maybe even a thousand times. Your child doesnโ€™t like what youโ€™ve said and responds with a head tilt, and eye roll, and the grand pronouncement, โ€œWhat-EVER!!!!โ€ What do you doโ€ฆ