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Parenting in the Chaos: When There’s No Time to Be Calm | [Mini-Episode]
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Hitting & Biting: How the Right Consequence Might Be Simpler Than You Think
Hitting and biting are really difficult phases for some kids. Oftentimes, it’s indicative of a child’s need for more big muscle activity to decrease stress in their nervousย system. (See our FREE resource, 60 Ways to Get Kids Moving and Laughing.)โฆ
Make-It-Right Consequences for Kids | Ep. 176
Start teaching your kids the first steps toward reconciliation and restoration by using “make it right” consequences in their relationships. Parent coach Amy Nyvall shares personal stories illustrating how she has taught her kids to take responsibility for their actionsโฆ
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3 Seรฑales de Consecuencias Poco รบtiles… ยกy Cรณmo Solucionarlas!
“ยกEres estรบpido!” dice el niรฑo frustrado. El padre se siente molesto, incluso un poco enojado y responde: “ยกNo puedes hablarme de esa manera! ยกEstรกs castigado por el resto del dรญa! ยกVe a tu habitaciรณn y piensa en lo que dijiste!”โฆ
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ๅช่ฆไฝ ๅทฒ็บไบบ็ถๆฏ๏ผไฝ ๅฏ่ฝๅทฒ็ถๅๅบไบ้ไธๅ้ๅคง็ผ็พ๏ผๅ็ฎกไฝ ็กไบๆๅคง็ๅชๅไฟๆๅท้๏ผ่ๅญฉๅญๅปบ็ซ่ฏๅฅฝ็้ไฟ๏ผไธฆไธไปฅๆฉๅ ธๅผๅฐไปๅ๏ผไฝๆฏไฝ ๅญฉๅญ็่ก็บไป็ถๆๅๅทฎใ ๅจ้ฃไบๆๅป๏ผไฝ ่ฆๆ้บผๅ๏ผ ๅคงๅคๆธ็ถๆฏ๏ผ็่ณๆฏ้ซ่ฒผ็็ถๆฏ๏ผ้ฝๆๅ่ฉฆ็บๅญฉๅญ็ๅๅทฎ่ก็บๅถๅฎไธไบๅพๆใ ไฝๆฏๅฆๆ็ถๆฏไธๆธ ๆฅๅพๆๅๆฒ็ฝฐไน้็ไธๅ๏ผ้ไบๅชๅๅพๅฎนๆ้ฉๅพๅ ถๅใ ๅ ๆญค๏ผๅฆๆไฝ ๅฐๆผ่ฉฆๅๆๆๅฐ็ฎกๆๅญฉๅญ็ๅๅทฎ่ก็บๆๅฐๆฒฎๅช๏ผ้ฃ้บผๆฏๅผๆธ ๆฅ้ๅ ฉๅ็จ่ช็ๆๅไบใ Table of Contents ๅพๆๅๆฒ็ฝฐไน้็ไธๅ ๅพๆ ๆฒ็ฝฐ ๆ้คๅญๅฅณไธญ็ๆฒ็ฝฐ่ๅพๆ็ไธๅ ็บไป้บผโ่ช็ถๆๆโๆฏไธ็จฎๆๆ็็ฎกๆๆนๅผ ็บไบๅนซๅฉๅญฉๅญๅพ่ช็ถๆๆไธญๅญธ็ฟ๏ผ่ซๅฟไปๅ ฅ ๅผทๅ ๅพๆ๏ผ็ถไฝ ็ๅญฉๅญ้่ฆๆดๅค็ๅนซๅฉๆ 1. ๅชๅคฑ็นๆฌ 2. โ้ๅโ/็ทด็ฟๆญฃ็ขบ็ๅๆ 3. ่ณ ๅๅพๆ่ๅ่งฃ ๅไน้่ผฏ็ๅพๆ๏ผๆบซๅๅฐๆฝๅๅญฉๅญ ๅนพๅๆ้ ่ฆ็ๆ ไบ ๅพๆๅๆฒ็ฝฐไน้็ไธๅ ้ฃ้บผ๏ผโๅพๆโๅโๆฒ็ฝฐโ็็ไธๅๅ๏ผ้่ฝ่ตทไพๅๆฏๅฌๆๅผๅญ๏ผไฝๆฏๆๅ็ๅฐๆ้กฏ่็ไธๅ๏ผ้่ๆๆถๅ็็ฎๆจๆๅพๅคง็้ไฟใ ๅพๆ ๆข ้ไบๅง-้ไผฏๆฏ็น๏ผMerriam-Webster๏ผๅฐๅพๆ็ๅฎ็พฉๆฏ๏ผโ็ฑๆไธๅๅ ๆๅฟ ็ถ้ตๅพชไธ็ตๆขไปถ่็ข็็ไบ็ฉใโ ็ฐก่่จไน๏ผๅพๆๆฏโไธๅ่กๅๆไบไปถ็็ตๆโใ้้ตๅจๆผ้ไบ็ตๆ้ฝๆฏๅฟ ็ถไผด้จไบไปถ่ไพ็ใไฝ ไปฅๆณ้ๆ็ฃ็๏ผไฝ ็ๆๅฐฑๆๅๅท๏ผๆๆด็ณใไฝ ๅจๆฟๆป็ๅฝ้ไธ้ๅฟซ่ป๏ผๆฑฝ่ปๅฐฑๆๆๆปๅคฑๆงใไฝ ๆด้ฃฒๆด้ฃ็ๅพๆๅฏ่ฝๅ ๆฌ่้จไธ้ฉใ่็ผ็ฑ๏ผๆฅ็ฉๆ็ดฏไนๅพ้ๅฏ่ฝๅบ็พๅ ถไป็ๅฅๅบทๅ้ก๏ผไพๅฆๅฟ่็ ใไฝ ๆๅผๅผ็ๅพๆๆฏๅทๅฎณๆๆ ๅ้ ๆ็ๅท๏ผๅคฑๅป่ฆชๅฏ้ไฟ๏ผไธฆๆณ่ฆไฟๆ่ท้ขใไบ่งฃไธฆๅนซๅฉๅญฉๅญ็่งฃไปๅๆไฝๆ็บๅฟ ็ถ็ผ็็็ตๆ๏ผๆฏๅจไธๅธ็ๆบๆ งไธญๆ้ท็้้ตใ โๅฟ่ฏๅฎถ้ฝโ ไฝฟ็จโ่ช็ถๆๆโๅโๅผทๅ ๅพๆโ ๅ ฉๅๅ็จฑ๏ผๅฆๆญคไธไพ๏ผๅฐๆผโ่ช็ถๅพๆโๅโๅไน้่ผฏ็ๅพๆโๅธธ่ฆ็่ชค่งฃๅฐไธ่ดๆผๆททๆทๆๅ็ๆๅฐใ ๆฒ็ฝฐ ๆข ้ไบๅง-้ไผฏๆฏ็น๏ผMerriam-Webster๏ผๅฐๆฒ็ฝฐ็ๅฎ็พฉๆฏ๏ผ โa.ไฝ็บๅ ฑๆ็ๅ่ฆใ็่ฆๆๆๅคฑโ โb.้้ๅธๆณ็จๅบๅฐ้ๆณ่ ๆฝๅ ็ๅ็ฝฐโ ้่ฃก็้้ต่ฉๆฏโๅ ฑๆโๅโๅฐ้ๆณ่ ๆฝๅ โใ็ฎๆจๆฏ้ ๆๆ็จฎโ็่ฆโ๏ผไปฅไฝฟๆญฃ็พฉๅพๅฐไผธๅผตใๆๅ็ๅ็ฝฐๅถๅบฆ๏ผ็ก่ซๅชๅฃ๏ผ้ๅธธๆฏๅฆๆญค่จญ่จ็: ไฝ ๅ้ฏไบไบ๏ผไฝ ่ขซ้ฎๅฐ๏ผไฝ ๆๅ ๆญค่ๅ่ฆใๅฎๆๆๆ้ ๆ็็่ฆ่ฝๆฟๅตๆดๅฅฝ็่ก็บใ ่ญฌๅฆ๏ผๅคงๅคๆธไบบๅฐๅ ้็ฝฐๆฌพๆ็่ณๅชๅคฑ้ง้งๆฌ็่็ฝฐ็ๆๆผ๏ผ่ฟซไฝฟไปๅไพๆณ้ง้งใ้ค้้ง้ง่ ็ๅๆฉๆฏๅบๆผๅฐ่ช็ถๅพๆ็็่งฃ๏ผไธ็ถ็ถไปๅๅฐ่ขซ้ฎๅฐ็ๆๆผๆธๅฐๆ๏ผ้ๆณ้ง้งๅฐฑๆๅขๅ ใ ็จๅพๆๅๆ่ฉณ็ดฐไป็ดน้ไธๅใ็พๅจ่ฎๆๅไพไป็ดฐ็ ็ฉถ่ๆ้คๅญๅฅณๆ้็ๅพๆๅๆฒ็ฝฐไน้็ไธๅใ ๆ้คๅญๅฅณไธญ็ๆฒ็ฝฐ่ๅพๆ็ไธๅโฆ
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ๅช่ฆไฝ ๅทฒไธบไบบ็ถๆฏ๏ผไฝ ๅฏ่ฝๅทฒ็ปๅๅบไบ่ฟไธไธช้ๅคงๅ็ฐ๏ผๅฐฝ็ฎกไฝ ๅฐฝไบๆๅคง็ๅชๅไฟๆๅท้๏ผไธๅญฉๅญๅปบ็ซ่ฏๅฅฝ็ๅ ณ็ณป๏ผๅนถไธไปฅๆฉๅ ธๅผๅฏผไปไปฌ๏ผไฝๆฏไฝ ๅญฉๅญ็่กไธบไป็ถไผๅๅทฎใ ๅจ้ฃไบๆถๅป๏ผไฝ ่ฆๆไนๅ๏ผ ๅคงๅคๆฐ็ถๆฏ๏ผ็่ณๆฏไฝ่ดด็็ถๆฏ๏ผ้ฝไผๅฐ่ฏไธบๅญฉๅญ็ๅๅทฎ่กไธบๅถๅฎไธไบๅๆใไฝๆฏๅฆๆ็ถๆฏไธๆธ ๆฅๅๆๅๆฉ็ฝไน้ด็ไธๅ๏ผ่ฟไบๅชๅๅพๅฎนๆ้ๅพๅ ถๅใๅ ๆญค๏ผๅฆๆไฝ ๅฏนไบ่ฏๅพๆๆๅฐ็ฎกๆๅญฉๅญ็ๅๅทฎ่กไธบๆๅฐๆฒฎไธง๏ผ้ฃไนๆฏๅผๆธ ๆฅ่ฟไธคไธช็จ่ฏญ็ๆถๅไบใ Table of Contents ๅๆๅๆฉ็ฝไน้ด็ไธๅ ๅๆ ๆฉ็ฝ ๆๅ ปๅญๅฅณไธญ็ๆฉ็ฝไธๅๆ็ไธๅ ไธบไปไนโ่ช็ถๆๅบโๆฏไธ็งๆๆ็็ฎกๆๆนๅผ ไธบไบๅธฎๅฉๅญฉๅญไป่ช็ถๆๅบไธญๅญฆไน ๏ผ่ฏทๅฟไปๅ ฅ ๅผบๅ ๅๆ๏ผๅฝไฝ ็ๅญฉๅญ้่ฆๆดๅค็ๅธฎๅฉๆถ 1. ไธงๅคฑ็นๆ 2. โ้ๅโ/็ปไน ๆญฃ็กฎ็ๅๅบ 3. ่ตๅฟๅๆไธๅ่งฃ ๅไน้ป่พ็ๅๆ๏ผๆธฉๅๅฐๆฝๅๅญฉๅญ ๅ ไธชๆ่ฟ่ง็ๆ ไบ ๅๆๅๆฉ็ฝไน้ด็ไธๅ ้ฃไน๏ผโๅๆโๅโๆฉ็ฝโ็็ไธๅๅ๏ผ่ฟๅฌ่ตทๆฅๅๆฏๅฌๆๅผๅญ๏ผไฝๆฏๆไปฌ็ๅฐๆๆพ่็ไธๅ๏ผ่ฟไธๆๆถๅ็็ฎๆ ๆๅพๅคง็ๅ ณ็ณปใ ๅๆ ๆข ้ไบๅง-้ฆไผฏๆฏ็น๏ผMerriam-Webster๏ผๅฏนๅๆ็ๅฎไนๆฏ๏ผโ็ฑๆไธๅๅ ๆๅฟ ็ถ้ตๅพชไธ็ปๆกไปถ่ไบง็็ไบ็ฉใโ ็ฎ่่จไน๏ผๅๆๆฏโไธไธช่กๅจๆไบไปถ็็ปๆโใๅ ณ้ฎๅจไบ่ฟไบ็ปๆ้ฝๆฏๅฟ ็ถไผด้ไบไปถ่ๆฅ็ใไฝ ไปฅๆณ้ๅป็ ๅข๏ผไฝ ็ๆๅฐฑไผๅไผค๏ผๆๆด็ณใไฝ ๅจๆนฟๆป็ๅผฏ้ไธๅผๅฟซ่ฝฆ๏ผๆฑฝ่ฝฆๅฐฑไผๆๆปๅคฑๆงใไฝ ๆด้ฅฎๆด้ฃ็ๅๆๅฏ่ฝๅ ๆฌ่้จไธ้ใ่็ผ็ญ๏ผๆฅ็งฏๆ็ดฏไนๅ่ฟๅฏ่ฝๅบ็ฐๅ ถไป็ๅฅๅบท้ฎ้ข๏ผไพๅฆๅฟ่็ ใไฝ ๆๅผๅผ็ๅๆๆฏไผคๅฎณๆๆ ๅ้ ๆ็ไผค๏ผๅคฑๅปไบฒๅฏๅ ณ็ณป๏ผๅนถๆณ่ฆไฟๆ่ท็ฆปใไบ่งฃๅนถๅธฎๅฉๅญฉๅญ็่งฃไปไปฌๆไฝๆไธบๅฟ ็ถๅ็็็ปๆ๏ผๆฏๅจไธๅธ็ๆบๆ งไธญๆ้ฟ็ๅ ณ้ฎใ โๅฟ่ๅฎถ้ฝโ ไฝฟ็จโ่ช็ถๆๅบโๅโๅผบๅ ๅๆโ ไธคไธชๅ็งฐ๏ผๅฆๆญคไธๆฅ๏ผๅฏนไบโ่ช็ถๅๆโๅโๅไน้ป่พ็ๅๆโๅธธ่ง็่ฏฏ่งฃๅฐไธ่ดไบๆททๆทๆไปฌ็ๆๅฏผใ ๆฉ็ฝ ๆข ้ไบๅง-้ฆไผฏๆฏ็น๏ผMerriam-Webster๏ผๅฏนๆฉ็ฝ็ๅฎไนๆฏ๏ผ โa.ไฝไธบๆฅๅบ็ๅ่ฆใ็่ฆๆๆๅคฑโ โb.้่ฟๅธๆณ็จๅบๅฏน่ฟๆณ่ ๆฝๅ ็ๅ็ฝโ ่ฟ้็ๅ ณ้ฎ่ฏๆฏโๆฅๅบโๅโๅฏน่ฟๆณ่ ๆฝๅ โใ็ฎๆ ๆฏ้ ๆๆ็งโ็่ฆโ๏ผไปฅไฝฟๆญฃไนๅพๅฐไผธๅผ ใๆไปฌ็ๅ็ฝๅถๅบฆ๏ผๆ ่ฎบไผๅฃ๏ผ้ๅธธๆฏๅฆๆญค่ฎพ่ฎก็: ไฝ ๅ้ไบไบ๏ผไฝ ่ขซ้ฎๅฐ๏ผไฝ ไผๅ ๆญค่ๅ่ฆใๅฎๆๆๆ้ ๆ็็่ฆ่ฝๆฟๅฑๆดๅฅฝ็่กไธบใ ่ญฌๅฆ๏ผๅคงๅคๆฐไบบๅฏนๅ ้็ฝๆฌพๆไป่ณไธงๅคฑ้ฉพ้ฉถๆ็ๅค็ฝ็ๆๆง๏ผ่ฟซไฝฟไปไปฌไพๆณ้ฉพ้ฉถใ้ค้้ฉพ้ฉถ่ ็ๅจๆบๆฏๅบไบๅฏน่ช็ถๅๆ็็่งฃ๏ผไธ็ถๅฝไปไปฌๅฏน่ขซ้ฎๅฐ็ๆๆงๅๅฐๆถ๏ผ่ฟๆณ้ฉพ้ฉถๅฐฑไผๅขๅ ใ ็จๅๆไปฌไผ่ฏฆ็ปไป็ป่ฟไธๅใ็ฐๅจ่ฎฉๆไปฌๆฅไป็ป็ ็ฉถไธๆๅ ปๅญๅฅณๆๅ ณ็ๅๆๅๆฉ็ฝไน้ด็ไธๅใ ๆๅ ปๅญๅฅณไธญ็ๆฉ็ฝไธๅๆ็ไธๅ ๅจ็ญๆๅ ๏ผๅฆๆๆไปฌๆ่ฏด็ๆๆๆฏๆ็ซๅณๆนๅ่กไธบ๏ผ้ฃไนๆฉ็ฝไฝไธบไธ็งๆๅ ป็ญ็ฅๆฏๅฏ่ก็ใ่ฟๅฐฑๆฏไธบไปไน็ถๆฏ็ปๅธธๅฐๆ็ง็นๅฎ็ๆฉ็ฝไฝไธบโ้ฆ้โ็็ฎกๆๆนๆณใๆๅฑ่กใๆๅใ็ซๅณๅคฑๅปๆๅๆฌข็็นๆๆ็ฉๅ๏ผๆๆ่ฟไบไผผไน้ฝ่ฝ้ๅถไธ่ฏ็่กไธบใๅ ๆญคๅฎไปฌๆไธบ้ข่ฎพ็ๆนๆณ: ๅฟซ้ใ็ฎๅใ้ซๆ็ใๅช่ฆๅญฉๅญๅฏนๆฉ็ฝๆ่ถณๅค็ๆๆง๏ผๆฉ็ฝ็ๅจ่ๆๆถไพฏๅฐฑไผโๅฅๆโๆฅๅก้ ไปไปฌ็่กไธบใโฆ
Consequences vs Punishment: Whatโs the Difference?
If youโve been parenting any time at all, you likely have made a significant discovery: Despite your most graceful efforts to stay calm, connect well, and guide them with grace, your kids still misbehave. So what do you do inโฆ
Coaching Your Kids to Make It Right | Ep. 111
Do you sometimes struggle to think of an appropriate consequence for your childโs misbehavior? Or dole out punishment only to have your child refuse to accept the punishment? Sigh. Offering consistent and effective discipline can feel like an ongoing andโฆ
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What Is the Goal of Your Discipline?
You CAN shift from managing behavior to mentoring belief.
My Child Doesn’t Care About Consequences
When your child shows no remorse, try this instead.