The God-Given Gifts in Your Child’s Misbehavior | Ep. 49

A Discipline That Connects overview [Podcast Series]

It takes skill to misbehave! A verbal child often argues with you until you’re exhausted. An emotional child might cry or manipulate. A physical child is more likely to get aggressive or grab something they want. Though it feels frustrating and even counter-intuitive, a shift in attention to your child’s strengths by finding their gift-gone-awry can help.

Stacy Bellward is joined by Jim and Lynne Jackson, co-founders of Connected Families Together they talk about the third part of the Connected Families framework: You are CALLED and CAPABLE! They discuss the transformational idea of finding the gifts beneath your child’s misbehavior. The challenge for parents is to identify the “gift” within the misbehavior; what we call a “Gift-Gone Awry.” 

In this podcast* Jim and Lynne share:

  • a life-giving vision to reframe your child’s gifts gone awry.
  • the importance of embracing this challenging vision.
  • how Jesus saw and encouraged a gift-gone-awry.
  • practical strategies for identifying, not suppressing, your child’s gifts.

We also hear from Jessica, an alum from our Discipline that Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course. She shares a practical example of looking for the gift-gone-awry in a tough situation with her son. Before taking the course, her approach to discipline unintentionally communicated to her son, “You are a problem!” Now their relationship has been transformed as she is learning to view her son as someone gifted for God’s good purposes!

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Frustrated by constant discipline challenges? Take 15 minutes to read our free ebook 4 Messages All Children Long to Hear: A Discipline That Connects Overview.

*This podcast originally aired in September of 2019.

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