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Itโs OK to Mess Up
Catie came for coaching to address sibling conflict and disrespect. During one session she confessed, โI get so mad when one son hits the other, and I just blew it yesterday. I got so angry, and yelled, and it allโฆ
Business Wisdom for Parents
We were excited to see our frequently-used concept of โthe do overโ appear on the blog of business and leadership guru Seth Godin, and we think his insights apply just as much to parents as to businesspeople. Hereโs what heโฆ
Stressful Times Lead to Fertile Hearts
Painting pictures in my mind has been very helpful in my parenting journey. For example, when Iโm upset and feel like my head is going to explode I imagine a balloon in my lungs filling and releasing air. When myโฆ
Teaching Kids True Repentance [video]
When kids make a mistake, especially when they hurt others, most parents would agree that itโs important to learn repentance — for kids to feel sorry for what theyโve done. But in our pursuit of this goal, many parents settleโฆ
How to Turn a Parenting Fail into a Parenting Win
It was a Sunday evening. I was emotionally and physically done for the day and looking forward to a quiet house. Suddenly I overheard squabbling about who was the rightful owner of a large stuffed panda bear. My engagement withโฆ
Practical Skills to Pick Up the Pieces After You Blow It
Are you wondering what to do when you blow it? Overcoming parenting mistakes isnโt so much about not making them (which is good because we made TONS of them), but about being intentional to develop three specific things that will helpโฆ
This Kid Changed Overnight! Hereโs How…
Sometimes it takes a while for parents to change in ways that lead to deeper respect from their kids. Sometimes it can happen fast. When Dan attended our weekend workshop he saw an immediate change by practicing what we callโฆ
The Conundrum of Trust
ย When kids trust they feel safe; they know theyโre loved. Trust leads to respect and true obedience. Kids who trust look to their parents for wisdom and follow their parentsโ examples in desirable ways. Where trust fails, relationships failโฆ
Regroup & Resolve
Every parent fails to deal perfectly with every parenting situation. In other words, we all screw up sometimes! Along the way weโve discovered that whatโs far more important than handling every parenting situation perfectly is to regroup, and resolve well.โฆ
Be Angry (if you must) But Don’t Sin.
Sometimes parents get too angry. ย Other times they don’t get angry enough – or at least they don’t stand firm to keep kids growing in responsibility for their own lives. In the name of keeping the peace parents sometimes keepโฆ