Help! How do I keep a conversation going with my child? | Ep. 59

Frequently parents focus on conversation skills when there is conflict. But what about in the normal day-to-day interactions? Do you feel like it is more
What to Say When Your Child Makes Outrageous Statements | Ep. 37

Have you ever heard an outrageous statement from your child? Outrageous statements come in all shapes and sizes and can often trigger disbelief or even
Avoiding Power Struggles Is Simpler Than You Think

We all want to avoid power struggles with our kids. The tantrums can be exhausting. Asking sincere questions, even with small kids, is a great
How to Have a Great Summer Without Pestering Your Kids | Ep. 36
Are You Tired of Having to Nag Your Kids? | Ep. 35

Does it seem like all you do is nag your kids? Are you frustrated because this is the sixth time you have asked your child
Two Questions That Defuse Almost Any Conflict

After working with parents for over twenty years we have learned that there are two critical questions that help guide children toward wisdom. The problem
Stay Curious During Tough Conversations

I remember a tough conversation I needed to have with our third-grade son, Daniel. I wasn’t very happy about the company he was starting to
Is Your Child Entitled to a Trophy?

A young mom queried me intently after our talk on Entitlement in kids. “What do you do about the culture around us that guarantees that
Powerful Strategies to Fill Your Parenting with Peace and Confidence

Jim and Lynne sat down with the Positive Parenting podcast to share powerful strategies for disciplining in a way that actually connects with kids – filling your parenting with peace and confidence.
What to Do When I Don’t Approve of My Child’s Friends

Peer relationships carry increasing influence as children grow up. And sometimes, these relationships can be reason for parents to feel increasingly anxious. Kids may choose
Are We Setting Our Kids Up to Be Uncooperative?

Parents can get in ruts. That’s true for me and I’m pretty sure it is for you, too. One rut that is familiar to many
When My Child Asked for an iPod, Here’s What I Said…

In this article I wrote about how my junior high daughter creatively and proactively asked for an iPod by preparing a well-thought-out list of answers to


