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SM Ep 152

Feel Safe: How to Cultivate a Sense of Security in an Unsafe World | Ep. 152

Children today face threats to their safety that are difficult to discuss. How do you help your kids process a school shooting or other violent attack? How can you hold the fear and anxiety they feel when youโ€™re experiencing theโ€ฆ

ใ€Šๅ…ญ็งๅ‘ๅญฉๅญ่กจ่พพ็ˆฑ็š„ๅฎž็”จๆ–นๆณ• (ๅณไฝฟๅœจ็ฎกๆ•™ไธญ)ใ€‹

่ฎ“ๅญฉๅญๅœจ็ด€ๅพ‹ๅ›ฐๅขƒไธญๆ„Ÿๅ—ๆ„›็š„ๅ…ญๅคงๅฏฆ็”จๆ–นๆณ•

ๅ‘ไฝ ็š„ๅญฉๅญ่กจ้”ๆ„›ๆ„็š„ๆœ€ๅฅฝๆ™‚ๆฉŸไน‹ไธ€ๅฐฑๆ˜ฏ็•ถไป–ๅ€‘่กŒ็‚บๅๅทฎๆ™‚ใ€‚็ˆถๆฏๅฐๅš้Œฏไบ‹็š„ๅญฉๅญ็š„ๆจ™ๆบ–ๅๆ‡‰้€šๅธธๆ˜ฏๆ†คๆ€’ใ€ๆฒฎๅ–ชๅ’Œ่ชชๆ•™๏ผŒไฝ†ๆ˜ฏ้€™ไบ›่ƒฝๆ”น่ฎŠ่กŒ็‚บๅ—Ž๏ผŸๅœจๆˆ‘ๅ’ŒๆฑŸ็ณๅ…ฑๅŒๅ‰ต่พฆโ€œๅฟƒ่ฏๅฎถ้ฝŠโ€ไน‹ๅ‰๏ผŒๆˆ‘ๆ›พ่ˆ‡่จฑๅคšๅ•้กŒๅ…’็ซฅๆ‰“ไบค้“๏ผŒไธฆไบ†่งฃๅˆฐ่จฑๅคš้—œๆ–ผๅญฉๅญๅœจๅ—ๅˆฐๆ‡ฒ็ฝฐๆ™‚ๆ‰€ๆŽฅๆ”ถๅˆฐ๏ผˆๆˆ–ๆœชๆŽฅๆ”ถๅˆฐ๏ผ‰็š„ไฟกๆฏใ€‚่จฑๅคšๅš้Œฏไบ‹็š„ๅญฉๅญ๏ผŒๅทฒ็ถ“ๆŠŠ่‡ชๅทฑๅฎš็พฉ็‚บ โ€œๅฃžโ€ใ€‚ไธๅ€ผๅพ—่ขซๆ„›ใ€‚็„ถ่€Œ๏ผŒๅณไฝฟๆ˜ฏๅœจๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๆœ€็ณŸ็ณ•็š„ๆ™‚ๅ€™, ้€™ไธฆไธๆ˜ฏ็ฅžๅฐๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็š„็ฝช็š„ๅ›žๆ‡‰๏ผŒ (็พ…้ฆฌๆ›ธไธ‰็ซ ไบŒๅไธ‰ใ€ไบŒๅๅ››็ฏ€๏ผ‰ใ€‚ ็ถ“้Žๅคšๅนดไพ†่ˆ‡ๅญฉๅญๅ’Œๅฎถๅบญ็š„ๅˆไฝœ๏ผŒๆˆ‘่ช็‚บๆœ€้‡่ฆ็š„ๆ˜ฏๆฏๆ™‚ๆฏๅˆปๅ‘ๅญฉๅญๅฑ•็คบ๏ผŒไป–ๅ€‘ๅ’Œๆˆ‘ๅœจไธ€่ตทๆ˜ฏๅฎ‰ๅ…จ็š„๏ผŒๆ˜ฏ่ขซๆ„›็š„ใ€‚ไบ‹ๅฏฆไธŠ๏ผŒ็•ถๅญฉๅญ่กŒ็‚บๅๅทฎๆ™‚๏ผŒๆˆ‘็š„็œผ็›่ฃกๅฐฑๆœƒ้–ƒ้Žไธ€็ตฒๅ…‰่Š’ใ€‚้€™ๆ˜ฏๆˆ‘ๅ‘ๅญฉๅญๅฑ•็คบไป–ๅ€‘ๆ˜ฏๅคš้บผๅœฐๆœ‰ๅƒนๅ€ผ็š„ๆฉŸๆœƒใ€‚ไฝœ็‚บ็ˆถๆฏ๏ผŒๆˆ‘ๅ€‘่ฆๅ‘ๅญฉๅญๅฑ•็คบ็ฅžๅฐๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็š„้‚ฃ็จฎๆ„›ใ€‚ไนŸ่จฑไฝ ไธ็Ÿฅ้“่ฉฒๅพžไฝ•่™•่‘—ๆ‰‹ใ€‚ๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๆ นๆ“š่‡ชๅทฑๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ๅ’Œๅฐˆๆฅญ็š„็ถ“้ฉ—๏ผŒๆไพ›ไปฅไธ‹ๅ…ญๅ€‹็ฐกๅ–ฎ็š„ๅปบ่ญฐ๏ผŒๅฏไปฅ็ขบไฟไฝ ็š„ๅญฉๅญๅณไฝฟๅœจๅ›ฐ้›ฃ็š„็ฎกๆ•™ๆƒ…ๆณไธ‹๏ผŒ้ƒฝ่ƒฝๆ„Ÿๅˆฐๅฎ‰ๅ…จๅ’Œ่ขซๆ„›ใ€‚ 1. ็ซ™ๅœจๅญฉๅญ็š„้ซ˜ๅบฆไธŠ ็ซ™็ซ‹็š„ๅงฟๅ‹ข็ถ“ๅธธ่ขซ็”จไฝœไธ€็จฎ้ซ˜ๅฃ“้Šทๅ”ฎ็ญ–็•ฅ๏ผŒๅ› ็‚บๅฎƒไฝฟ้Šทๅ”ฎ่€…่™•ๆ–ผไธ€็จฎไปคไบบ็”Ÿ็•็š„ไฝ็ฝฎ๏ผŒๅ› ่€Œๆ›ดๆœ‰ๅฏ่ƒฝ่ฟซไฝฟๅฐๆ–นไฝœๅ‡บ่ณผ่ฒท็š„ๆฑบๅฎšใ€‚็ˆถๆฏ็ถ“ๅธธๆœƒไฟฏ่ฆ–่‘—ๅฐๅญฉๅญ๏ผŒๅณไฝฟๆ˜ฏ้ซ˜ๅคง็š„้’ๅฐ‘ๅนดไนŸๅฏ่ƒฝไป่ˆŠ่ช็‚บ็ˆถๆฏๆ˜ฏๆ›ดๅทจๅคงใ€ๆ›ดๆœ‰ๅŠ›็š„ใ€‚ๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๅฐๅญฉๅญๅ‚ณ้”โ€œๆˆ‘ๆ˜ฏ็‚บไฝ ๅฅฝโ€็š„ไธ€ๅ€‹้‡่ฆๆ–นๆณ•๏ผŒๅฐฑๆ˜ฏ “็ธฎๅฐ “ๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็š„ๅงฟๅ‹ข๏ผŒไพ‹ๅฆ‚ๅ่‘—ๆˆ–่ทช่‘—๏ผŒไปฅๅŠไฟๆŒ้–‹ๆ”พ็š„่‚ข้ซ”่ชž่จ€๏ผˆไพ‹ๅฆ‚๏ผŒไธไบคๅ‰ๆ‰‹่‡‚๏ผ‰ใ€‚ๅฆๅค–๏ผŒๆณจ่ฆ–่‘—ไป–ๅ€‘ใ€‚็œผ็›่ขซๆฐ็•ถๅœฐ็จฑ็‚บ้ˆ้ญ‚ไน‹็ช—– ้€้Žไฝ ็œ‹ๅญฉๅญ็š„ๆ–นๅผ๏ผŒ่ฎ“ไป–ๅ€‘็œ‹ๅˆฐไฝ ๆ˜ฏ็‚บไป–ๅ€‘ๅฅฝ็š„ใ€‚ 2. ๅœไธ‹ไพ†๏ผŒๅ‘ผๅธๅ’Œ็ฆฑๅ‘Š ๆœ‰ๆ™‚ไพฏ๏ผŒๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๅฐๅๅทฎ่กŒ็‚บ็š„็›ดๆŽฅๅๆ‡‰ๆ˜ฏๆ†คๆ€’ใ€‚้‡่ฆ็š„ๆ˜ฏ๏ผŒไธ่ฆ่ฎ“ไฝ ็š„ๆ†คๆ€’ๆ”ฏ้…ไธ€ๅˆ‡ใ€‚ๅ–่€Œไปฃไน‹็š„ๆ˜ฏ๏ผŒๅœจไฝ ่ˆ‡ๅญฉๅญไบ’ๅ‹•ไน‹ๅ‰๏ผŒ่ฎ“่‡ชๅทฑๅ†ท้œไธ‹ไพ†ใ€‚ๅญธๆœƒๅœไธ‹ไพ†๏ผŒๅ‘ผๅธ๏ผŒไธฆ่—‰่‘—็ฆฑๅ‘Š็ฒๅพ—ๆ™บๆ…ง็š„่ง€้ปž๏ผŒๆœ‰ๅŠฉๆ–ผไฝ ้ฟๅ…ไธๅ‡ๆ€็ดข็š„ๅ‚ทๅฎณๆ€ง่ชž่จ€ใ€‚ๅฆ‚ๆžœๅฏ่ƒฝ็š„่ฉฑ๏ผŒไฝ ไนŸ่จฑ้œ€่ฆ่ตฐๅ‡บๆˆฟ้–“๏ผŒๆˆ–่€…ๅ’Œไฝ ็š„ๅญฉๅญไธ€่ตทๆฑบๅฎšๅˆ†้–‹ไธ€ๆฎตๆ™‚้–“๏ผŒ็ญ‰ไฝ ไธ้‚ฃ้บผ็”Ÿๆฐฃๆ™‚ๅ†่ฆ‹้ขใ€‚้ ้›ข้€™็จฎๆƒ…ๆณ๏ผŒไธฆไธ”้‚€่ซ‹่–้ˆ้€ฒๅ…ฅใ€‚ๆˆ–่จฑไฝ ๅฏไปฅ็นž่‘—่ก—ๅ€่ตฐไธ€ๅœˆ๏ผŒ่Šฑไบ›ๆ™‚้–“ๆ€่€ƒไฝ ็‰นๅˆฅๅ–œๆญกๅญฉๅญ็š„ๅ“ชไบ›ๅ„ช้ปžใ€‚ๆ€่€ƒไธ€ไธ‹ๆœชไพ†ใ€‚ไฝ ๅธŒๆœ›ๅญฉๅญๅฆ‚ไฝ•ๅพž้€™ๆฌก็ถ“ๆญทไธญๅญธ็ฟ’๏ผŒๅพž่€Œๆ›ดๅฅฝๅœฐ่ฃๅ‚™ไป–ๅ€‘็š„็”Ÿๆดป๏ผŸ้–ฑ่ฎ€้€™็ฏ‡้—œๆ–ผ็•ถไฝ ๆ„Ÿ่ฆบ่ฆๅคฑๅŽปๅ†ท้œๆ™‚๏ผŒๅ‘ผๅธ้‚€่ซ‹ไธŠๅธ็š„ๅŒๅœจ็š„ๆ–‡็ซ ใ€‚ 3. ็ตฆไบˆ้ฉๅˆ‡็š„ใ€ๆบซๆŸ”็š„่งธๆ‘ธ ๅฎ‰ๅ…จใ€ๆทฑๆƒ…็š„่งธๆ‘ธๆ˜ฏๅ‚ณ้”ๆ„›็š„ๆœ€ๆœ‰ๅŠ›ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€‚ๅฐๅฅๅบท็š„็™ผๅฑ•่€Œ่จ€๏ผŒไบบ้กžๅฐๆ„›็š„่งธๆ‘ธ็š„้œ€ๆฑ‚๏ผŒไปฅๅŠๅฐ่ฝๅˆฐๆ„›็š„่ชž่จ€็š„้œ€ๆฑ‚๏ผŒไธ€ๆจฃ่‡ณ้—œ้‡่ฆใ€‚ๅฆ‚ๆžœๅญฉๅญไธ่ฆบๅพ—็ˆถๆฏๆœ‰ๅ…ถไป–็›ฎ็š„็š„่ฉฑ๏ผŒไธ€ๅ€‹ๆ“ๆŠฑๆˆ–่€…ๅฐ‡ๆ‰‹่ผ•่ผ•ๆญๅœจ่‚ฉไธŠ๏ผŒๅฏไปฅไฝฟไป–ๅนณ้œใ€ๅฎ‰ๅฟƒๅ’Œๅปบ็ซ‹่ฏ็ตใ€‚ๅฆ‚ๆžœๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๅœจ็ˆญๅตๆ™‚ๅฐ‡ๆ‰‹ๆ”พๅœจๅ…’ๅญ็š„่‚ฉไธŠ๏ผŒ่€Œๅธถๆœ‰ไปปไฝ•ๆŽงๅˆถ็š„ๆš—็คบ๏ผŒไป–ๆœƒๆ†คๆ€’ๅœฐๅšๅ‡บๅๆ‡‰ใ€‚ไฝ†ๆ˜ฏๅญฉๅญ้€šๅธธๆœƒๅœจไป–ๅ€‘ๆบ–ๅ‚™ๅฅฝ็š„ๆ™‚ๅ€™๏ผŒๆ„Ÿๆฟ€ๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๆไพ›็š„ๆ“ๆŠฑใ€‚ 4.ๅ‚พ่ฝๅ’Œๆœ‰ๅŒ็†ๅฟƒ ็„ก่ซ–ๅญฉๅญๆ˜ฏ่กŒ็‚บ่‰ฏๅฅฝ้‚„ๆ˜ฏ่กŒ็‚บๅๅทฎ๏ผŒไป–ๅ€‘้ƒฝ่ฟซๅˆ‡ๅœฐๅธŒๆœ›็ˆถๆฏ่ˆ‡ไป–ๅ€‘ไบ’ๅ‹•๏ผŒ็ตฆไบˆไป–ๅ€‘ๅ……ๆปฟๆดปๅŠ›ใ€ๅฐˆๆณจ็š„้—œๆณจใ€‚ ๅ‚พ่ฝๅญฉๅญๅฏไปฅ่ฎ“ไป–ๅ€‘่ฆบๅพ—ไฝ ้—œๅฟƒไป–ๅ€‘็š„้œ€ๆฑ‚ใ€‚ ็•ถไฝ ่ƒฝๅค ๆ˜Ž็ขบ่ชชๅ‡บไธฆไธ”่ชๅŒๅญฉๅญ็š„ๆ„Ÿๅ—ๆ™‚๏ผŒ้€™ๆœ‰ๅŠฉๆ–ผไป–ๅ€‘็Ÿฅ้“ไฝ ๆ˜ฏ็ซ™ๅœจไป–ๅ€‘ไธ€้‚Š็š„ใ€‚ ๆœ‰ๆ™‚ไพฏ๏ผŒๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ไฝœ็‚บ็ˆถๆฏๆœƒ้ฝไธ‹็ต่ซ–ๆ˜ฏไป€้บผ้ฉ…ไฝฟๅญฉๅญ็š„ๅๅทฎ่กŒ็‚บใ€‚ ไฝ ๆ˜ฏๅฆ่€ƒๆ…ฎ้Ž็›ดๆŽฅๅ•ๅญฉๅญ็™ผ็”Ÿไบ†ไป€้บผไบ‹๏ผŸ็ถ“็”ฑๅนณ้œ่€Œๅฅฝๅฅ‡็š„็™ผๅ•๏ผŒไฝ ๅฏไปฅ่ฎ“ๅญฉๅญๅฎ‰ๅ…จๅœฐ่ซ‡่ซ–ไป–ๅ€‘็š„่กŒ็‚บ๏ผŒ่€Œไฝ ๅ‰‡ๅœจๅ‚พ่ฝใ€‚ 5. ่ฎ“ไป–ๅ€‘็Ÿฅ้“ไฝ ่ฝๅˆฐไบ†ไป–ๅ€‘็š„ๅฟƒ่ฒ ็•ถๅญฉๅญ่ฆบๅพ—่‡ชๅทฑ่ขซๅ‚พ่ฝๆ™‚๏ผŒไป–ๅ€‘ๆœƒๆ„Ÿๅˆฐๅ—ๅฐŠ้‡๏ผŒ้€™ไฝฟๅพ—ไป–ๅ€‘ไธๅคชๆƒณ่ฆ็นผ็บŒๆŒ‘้‡่กŒ็‚บใ€‚ ้€้Ž็”จโ€œๆˆ‘่ฝๅˆฐไฝ ่ชช็š„ๆ˜ฏ โ€ฆโ€้‡่ฟฐๅญฉๅญ็š„่ฉฑ๏ผŒไพ†่กจ้”ไฝ ็š„็†่งฃ๏ผŒ็„ถๅพŒ่ฎ“ไป–ๅ€‘ๆœ‰ๆฉŸๆœƒๅนซๅŠฉไฝ ๆ›ดๅŠ ๆธ…ๆฅšไป–ๅ€‘็š„่ง€้ปžใ€‚ ๆœ‰ๆ™‚ไพฏ๏ผŒๅช่ฆ่Šฑ้ปžๆ™‚้–“ไธ€่ตทๅๆ€๏ผŒๅฐฑๅฏไปฅๅŒ–่งฃ็ทŠๅผต็š„ๅฑ€้ขใ€‚ 6.ๅฃ้ ญ่กจ้”โ€œๆˆ‘ๆ„›ไฝ โ€ ้€™ไผผไนŽๅพˆๆ˜Ž้กฏ๏ผŒๅปๅพˆ้‡่ฆใ€‚ๅ‘Š่จดๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็š„ๅญฉๅญๆˆ‘ๅ€‘ๆ„›ไป–๏ผŒ้œ€่ฆไธ€้ก†็œŸ่ช ็š„ๅฟƒ๏ผŒๆ“บ่„ซๆ“็ธฑใ€‚็›ฎๆจ™ๆ˜ฏๆ”น่ฎŠๅ…งๅฟƒ๏ผŒๅŒ…ๆ‹ฌไฝ ๅ’Œๅญฉๅญ็š„ๅฟƒ๏ผŒ่€Œไธๅƒ…ๅƒ…ๆ˜ฏๆœๅพžใ€‚็„กๆขไปถ็š„ๆ„›ไธๅชๆ˜ฏๅฐๆญฃ้ข่กŒ็‚บ็š„่ฎš็พŽใ€‚่€Œๆ˜ฏๅฐไธ€ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ๅฟ ่ช ๅ’Œๅ–œๆ„›๏ผŒไธ่€ƒๆ…ฎไป–็š„่กŒ็‚บใ€ๅค–่กจใ€่กจ็พๆˆ–ๆ˜ฏๅฆ่ƒฝๆปฟ่ถณๆˆ‘็š„้œ€่ฆใ€‚ๅฆ‚ๆžœไฝ ่ƒฝ้คŠๆˆ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃ๏ผŒๅœจๅ„็จฎไธๅŒ็š„ๆ™‚ๆฉŸ๏ผŒ็„ก่ซ–่กŒ็‚บๆญฃ้ข่ˆ‡ๅฆ๏ผŒ้ƒฝๅ‘ๅญฉๅญ่กจ้”ๆ„›๏ผŒๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็›ธไฟกไฝ ๆœƒ้–‹ๅง‹็œ‹ๅˆฐไฝ ็š„ๅญฉๅญๆœ‰ไธๅŒ็š„ๅๆ‡‰๏ผŒไธฆไธ”ไป–ๅ€‘ๆœƒ้–‹ๅง‹ๅ…งๅŒ–โ€œ็„ก่ซ–ๅฆ‚ไฝ•้ƒฝๆ„›โ€็š„ไฟกๆฏใ€‚ ็•ถ็ฎกๆ•™ๆ—จๅœจๅฟซ้€Ÿไฟฎๅพฉ่กŒ็‚บๆ™‚๏ผŒๅฎƒๅพ€ๅพ€ๆ˜ฏ็Ÿญ่ฆ–ใ€้šจๆ„ใ€ๆ‡ฒ็ฝฐๆ€งๅ’Œไธๅฏ้ ๆธฌ็š„ใ€‚ไฝ ๆ˜ฏๅฆๆธดๆœ›ๆ‰พๅˆฐไธ€็จฎไธๅŒ็š„ๆ–นๅผไพ†ๆ•™้คŠๅญฉๅญ๏ผŸไธ€ๅ€‹ๆ—ขๆ˜ฏ็ฌฆๅˆ่–็ถ“ๅˆๆ˜ฏไปฅ็ ”็ฉถ็‚บๅŸบ็คŽ็š„ๆ–นๆณ•๏ผŸๆญก่ฟŽๅŠ ๅ…ฅๆˆ‘ๅ€‘็š„โ€œๅฟƒ้€ฃๅฟƒ็š„็ฎกๆ•™โ€ๅœจ็ทš่ชฒ็จ‹ใ€‚ ไฝ ็š„ๅญฉๅญๆœƒๆ„Ÿ่ฌไฝ ็š„ใ€‚ ๅ‚™่จป: ๆ–‡ไธญ็š„้ˆๆŽฅ่‹ฅๆœชๅฎŒๆˆไธญๆ–‡็š„็ฟป่ญฏ, ๅฐ‡ๆœƒ่ขซ้ˆๆŽฅๅˆฐโ€ๅฟƒ่ฏๅฎถ้ฝŠโ€็š„่‹ฑๆ–‡็ถฒ็ซ™ใ€‚ 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